Steve Odierno, Alumnus of Saint Joseph Regional High School Class of ’93 has died

The Saint Joseph Regional High School (SJR) community is grieving the heartbreaking loss of Steve Odierno, a proud alumnus from the Class of 1993, who served as the school’s Director of Marketing. Steve passed away unexpectedly, leaving behind a legacy of dedication, compassion, and commitment to the school he deeply loved. His impact as a leader, father, and friend will continue to resonate throughout the SJR community for years to come.

A Devoted Member of the SJR Community

In an official statement, Saint Joseph Regional High School shared the news of Steve’s passing with heartfelt emotion:

“It is with heavy hearts that we share the passing of our beloved colleague and friend, Steve Odierno ’93, Director of Marketing and proud father of Steven Odierno ’23, and Katherine Odierno ’25 (IHA).
Steve was a devoted member of the SJR community whose love for our school and its mission was felt by all who knew him. He lived the spirit of brotherhood with warmth, loyalty, and heart—and his absence will be felt deeply by all of us.”

As Director of Marketing at SJR, Steve played an instrumental role in shaping the school’s image and outreach. His work behind the scenes—promoting student achievements, coordinating events, and connecting with alumni—was fueled by an unshakable belief in the values that define Saint Joseph Regional: brotherhood, academic excellence, faith, and service. Steve was not just a staff member; he was a living embodiment of the school’s mission.

A Proud Father and Family Man

Beyond his professional contributions, Steve was a deeply committed family man. He was the proud father of two children—Steven Odierno, a recent graduate from the Class of 2023 at SJR, and Katherine Odierno, a current student at the Academy of the Holy Angels (IHA), Class of 2025. His love and support for his children were evident in everything he did. He celebrated their accomplishments, guided them with wisdom, and ensured they knew how proud he was of them every single day.

Steve’s presence at school events—whether cheering from the sidelines or capturing memorable moments—reflected his unwavering devotion to his family and to the broader school community. He forged lasting friendships with parents, students, and faculty, creating bonds that will endure long after his passing.

Honoring His Life and Legacy

To celebrate the life of Steve Odierno, the SJR community and his loved ones will come together for services that reflect the deep respect and affection he inspired:

• Wake:
  Thursday, April 24 | 3:00 – 7:00 PM
  Vander Plaat Funeral Home, Wyckoff, NJ
• Funeral Mass:
  Friday, April 25 | 10:30 AM
  St. Elizabeth’s Church, Wyckoff, NJ

In his honor, Saint Joseph Regional High School will begin the school day with a special Mass on Monday, April 28. All students are expected to wear a dress shirt and tie as a sign of reverence, and no shorts will be permitted. This gesture serves as a heartfelt tribute to a man who gave so much of himself to the school community.

A Lasting Impact on Saint Joseph Regional High School

Steve Odierno’s passing is not just a loss for his immediate family—it is a loss for the entire Saint Joseph Regional High School family. His passion, integrity, and warmth left a lasting impression on everyone he encountered. His efforts helped shape the school’s identity, and his spirit of generosity and brotherhood will continue to inspire both current and future generations of Green Knights.

In times of sorrow, communities often find strength in unity. And as SJR mourns the loss of one of its own, it does so together—remembering Steve with fondness, gratitude, and love.

The school has asked all to continue keeping the Odierno family in their thoughts and prayers. As the community reflects on his life and the countless lives he touched, one thing is certain: Steve Odierno’s legacy will never be forgotten.

May he rest in the eternal peace of Christ.